The Unique You

In a gathering, the topic of discussion was about how women / Ladies nowadays all over the world, throw away who they really are and just want to keep up with the social trends, lifestyle and be noticed.  An elderly man asked , "can we find Nigerian women /Ladies that still stands out and hold on to our values and culture, women /Ladies that are not shying away from who they really are has Nigerians" ? I had to contribute to the discussion...... Nigeria is an amazing country that is distinctly unique. Talking about women/Ladies , it is quite different when it has do with Nigeria. They are beautiful, now I am referring to both inside traits and outside looks,  Nigerian women /Ladies has it all. Despite the craze, trends, lifestyle and all things going on in the world right now, we still have Nigerian women who are still focused, standing and not intimidated by whatsoever. Women /Ladies around the world cannot be compared to Nigerians. Nigerian women /Ladies alwa

EXCUSES (verb)  To exempt from a task, duty or obligation. To serve as an explanation that vindicates, defends or justifies an action.  This excuses we make, seek to lessen the blame attaching to a fault or offence; you know trying to justify. Sometimes we release our friends or colleagues from a duty or requirement with excuses.  Excuses!  Excuses!  Excuses! .. Hmm they are the nails used to build a house of failure... By the time that house will collapse it will be a shocker.  ****  A quick story of two final year students, writing their final year project,  a 6 unit course. Girl 1 has a laptop while Girls 2 does not have.  These two girls had the same deadline and different supervisors.  Girl 1's supervisor is always available,  Girl 2's supervisor comes around once in a blue moon . Girl 2 became really worried and concerned about how to get her project done in time, despite all the challenges. So she came up with the idea of borrowing any laptop she ca