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CHANGECOSIS



Change is the only CONSTANT. It is inevitable. 

Few days ago I posted this word  CHANGECOSIS on my Instagram page @_expressit and I challenged my followers to find the meaning of the word, but  I almost forgot we are the Google generation (Lol)  so I got answers powered by Google (lol). 

                    

Moreover, my sister, Ifedolapo Ajakaiye(Mrs) inspired this piece, she sent me the word, I thought it was one of those medical terms they use as medical practitioners , but no it is not.  According to her; "After a long period of study on unhealthy conditions and why it threatens life ; I came across a disease that threatens one's ability to enjoy life and develop one's full potential - CHANGECOSIS ". Yes!  it is a disease. It is wise to avoid this disease, a threat to happy living and growth , better still run from it. 

This Changecosis is an unhealthy condition that only those who resist change suffer from it. You need to do whatever it takes to make changes in some aspect of your life that is required. 

I realized Change itself comes without a notice nor seeks your permission. So it pays off to adapt to it and scale through that phase. 

Be ready to change, adapt to change, expect change, anticipate change, and desire to change, But while in the process of change, just keep growing. 

You know, change is hard at first, messy in the middle, and gorgeous at the end.  One reason people resist change is because they focus on what they have to give up instead of what they have to gain. 


A colleague once told me, "korede I like your person" I had to ask why? and he said ;you adapt so easily and you move on real quick " mehn I smiled,  But this is reality, so many times when change comes, it is so unbearable and tough to handle, I get my bed wet with tears, but the only way out was trusting and letting God. So when you see me smiling and all hyper active, just know my God is at work(Matthew 11:28). Why worry?
..... when change comes, most especially on the negative side, One have to understand that the same way that situation came, the same way it will pass in no time. One question I ask often is, when you are experiencing a positive change why don't you want it it to pass away quickly? You see...  Be so confident to face any changes that comes up in your life and be ready to fight back at the ones you don't want. You have to accept the change first before you can overcome it, and every good thing in life passes through a rough road(it is either there is a mother on her knees praying or you are having sleepless nights just to scale through ) . Nobody says it will be easy, never resist change. 

May your choices reflect your hopes not your fears(Amen) . Be on the hunt for who you have not yet become. 

Change like they say is constant,  and to constantly remain potentially healthy,  you need CHANGE. 


Yaaaayiii peace 
Korex 




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Comments

  1. Nice write up.... But sometimes change is bad and uneasy to adapt to

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    1. Yeah Right! What of those moments or period you don't just have a choice but to adapt, be strong and prove yourself to be better than that situation... The bad change, face it and put a stop to it. Like I said, be ready to confidently fight against anything that threatens your happy living.

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  2. Change is inevitable its art of life when u stop growing u start dying....

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  3. change is inevitable its part of life... when u stop changing u start dying

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  4. May you never lack the oil to influence your world through the power of the word. Change is a beautiful thing but most of us are conservatist because we do not know what tomorrow holds and that's the limitation of human knowledge. The God factor then becomes expedient in while going through changes in life. Joseph woke up one beautiful morning and he wasn't expecting the change that happened to him, but the change was orchestrated by God for his lifting, what really amused me and that I got from the script of his life was his attitude while going through change and the attitude was as a result of his relationship with Yahweh. When God is in our boat then He won't allow the tides to cover up. This is a timely piece Korede, at a time like this that this nation is going through recession it beckons hope the it's only for a night and joy will surely return in the morning. More power to your elbow Korede... The sky is your starting point.

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    1. Soo true... Joseph accepted the change regardless and he was lifted. Even Jesus experienced a lot of change while on earth and at the point of crucification, Jesus wanted the course to pass over him, if it was the will of God. But now we are all enjoying that unbearable change Jesus accepted (GRACEπŸ™Œ).Thanks for adding this great piece Adetayo, God bless you greatly. Amen to the prayers πŸ™

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  5. What a very nice article..this is very timely considering the obvious weather of recession and inflation in the country..changes like this are setbacks, but they shouldnt stop our tendency to progress, build and succeed."No excuse"..i really like the above comment made by"adetayo Adetilewa"..Joseph in the bible is a good example of how we are to act in the phase of change..Ride on Korex, u never stop inspiring me...yaaayi!!!!!

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    1. Glory to God πŸ™Œ yes nothing should stop our tendency to progress ooooo, and I like what @ Adetayo Adetilewa stated ; Josephs attitude and relationship with God helped him to scale through,the God factor is Really expedient while going through change. Joseph is our perfect Example. Thanks for adding David. God bless

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  6. Precious Ogbonnaya13 January 2017 at 04:17

    Very thoughtful piece. We should learn to let go and let God, he's the greatest masterplanner after all.

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  7. Weldone Korex... More strength πŸ’ͺ

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  9. Very excellent post Korex. Change really can be hard but we won't grow without it. Every change, good or bad definitely serve a purpose in our lives in one way or another. We build experience, learn from our past mistakes and we learn to adapt better.
    In fact, I have noticed that when God wants to build a new character in you, he brings about a change that makes you uncomfortable and takes you out of your comfort zone. We just have to always push ahead in faith. And like you said, accept the change, be confident and overcome any difficult one. With God everything is absolutely possible.
    Great piece one again dear. More grace, more wisdom in Jesus name Amen. God bless πŸ˜ŠπŸ€—

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  10. Very excellent post Korex. Change really can be hard but we won't grow without it. Every change, good or bad definitely serve a purpose in our lives in one way or another. We build experience, learn from our past mistakes and we learn to adapt better.
    In fact, I have noticed that when God wants to build a new character in you, he brings about a change that makes you uncomfortable and takes you out of your comfort zone. We just have to always push ahead in faith. And like you said, accept the change, be confident and overcome any difficult one. With God everything is absolutely possible.
    Great piece one again dear. More grace, more wisdom in Jesus name Amen. God bless πŸ˜ŠπŸ€—

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    1. Yeah right, to grow change is key, and indeed every chnges that we face , serves a purpose in our lives, preparing us for better days.thank you so much dear, amen....God bless you sis

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  11. Such a beautiful write-up.
    I hope I can do these things, but God will definitely see me through. God bless you sister.

    I.G @eden_dena

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    1. I know God will help you dear, accept it, face it and go for it. let your confidence supersede your fears. God got you, just trust.

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